Wednesday, October 21, 2009

The Most Important Person in My Life - by Christopher Johnson



 Naming a particular individual as the most important person in one’s life can be difficult for many, yet for me this is a simple task. Jessie May Johnson, my grandmother wins the award in my mind. Born in Piza, Italy in 1946, my grandmother traveled here on a ship with her parents and small siblings decades ago in an attempt to secure a life in America that would afford them and continued generations a chance at a great life. As a person my grandmother is the essence of kindness, strength, love, and devotion, mixed with stubbornness, an opinionated mind, and a lack of adventure. She enjoys the feeling of comfort and usually relaxes with a pony tail, equipped with a book to fill the time. Grandma, as she’s affectionately known to her grandkids is selfless with a big heart.
            What makes my grandmother the woman she is, is her devotion to her family. She worked in a factory for a short period of time to later stop working in order to take care of her siblings, children, and grandchildren. She’s always willing to give everything she has to ensure others are okay. For example, if one of her siblings, kids, or grandkids are in need of a place to stay, a small amount of money, or just some advice, she is there, although it kills her inside sometime to do so. She has the heart of a thousand people.
             My grandmother is strong a woman. You can call her a superhero, because she takes on that role as a grandparent, mother, and sister. She Sets guidelines like there’s nothing she can’t do, like batman, the superhero with no powers, as if she is untouchable and can’t be harmed. She is loving at all time regardless of the situation, she is devoted, devoted to a life of kindness, understanding, and selflessness. Because of all her great characteristics, she took my siblings and I in order to keep us from going into foster care and looked after us as we turned into young adults. She is what keeps me going when all else fails.
            Although she can very much be stubborn, and set in her old ways, she is the light in our lives. She is also the type of person who limits herself. She lacks a sense of self adventure and goes nowhere. She stays in the house all day, everyday unless she needs to go to the doctor. Her adventures are usually to the window to look and see what’s going on outside on our block. She is also very opinionated, and goes with whatever someone tells her. For example, you can tell her the world is going to blow up, and she’ll call everyone and let them know what she has just found out. She’ll argue you down and stick with her story, then she’ll tell you off and apologize for it later. She gets on your nerve’s, but you got to love her for that.
            My grandmother, is a 5ft. 4in. woman who is the light in the family, the glue of all of our needs, the hope, and love that guides us along the way. She is important to me because she did a lot to make sure we lived the best life we can. She gave up a lot to take on the responsibility of an adult at the age of 15. My grandmother is the essence of kindness, strength, love, and devotion with all hands down.


Immigrants Arriving at Ellis Island


22 comments:

  1. this is amazing. when i had read this, i wished my grandmother was just like yours. your grandmother is amazing. she is now my idle.

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  2. Being able to know and receive the love and knowledge of an elder is such a vital gift. A priceless gift you definitely honor in this writing and appreciate. How lucky you are Christopher...

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  3. I salute all grandmoms like her. You're right. They may be very strict but we should be at least thankful because without them, we are not as mature as we are suppose-to-be at this point of time.

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  4. your grandmother is a very strong and kindhearted person, You should cherish her with everything because some people don't get that kind of love that you get.

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  5. Grandmothers are wiser because the went through all that we are going through as young adults and that is why they are strict. Christopher your story reminded me of my grandmother because she is set in her old-fashioned ways but she always put her family first. You are also lucky to have your grandmother with you, i only see my grandmother every couple of years.

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  6. Your grandmother is a brave woman, unlike other grandmothers. You should make her joyful whenever you can, because she did alot of things to help your future.

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  7. I could relate to this.My grandmother is the most sweet, kind hearted person i know. She's like a second mom to me.Everything good in me is because of her.

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  8. Your grandmother really is a very strong woman and you were lucky to have a woman like that in your life. I think you are a strong writer because I feel like I have met your grandmother before from the way you described her.

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  9. My grandmother and your grandmother have lots of similarities, except for the traveling on a ship.

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  10. I understand the love you have for your grandmother, because mine is similiar. I like how you mentioned, "she can very much be stubborn, and set in her old ways.", it shows the realness of youre writing.

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  11. Your gradmother most be very proud of you...Shes always there to help anyone that needs help.You are very lucky for having a grandma like her.My Grandma was also the most important person in my life but she passed away 3 years ago and she was also my hero. Good Job....

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  12. Your grandmother is a strong women indeed be thankful for such a blessing in your life.

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  13. This is a good essay..By the things you're saying it's telling me that your grandmother has a big heart and is a tough lady by going through all the things that she had gone through. You are a lucky guy to have a grandmother like her.

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  14. I love the way this is written!!! The way you utilized words and feelings to paint a beautiful portrait of who and what your grandmother means to you, is breath taking. Even still i do not feel words can ever justify someones deepest emotions for an individual, but we can try. Your grandmother seems like shes bold,honest,stubborn but kind,strong but weak when no one is watching but who isnt? I feel love and appreciation for grandmothers nowadays is a lost cause, but you've enlivened it with this piece of work.

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  15. well my grandmother was very special to me also i losted her and miss her deeply!!!!! she was very smart kind hearted and witty!!!! grandmothers are the best you love them and miss them even more when they are not around !!!!! cherish what you have!!! enjoy the moment no one lives forever!!!!!!!

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  16. Your grandmother is a strong person and still help around with things.She is very independent and u should be happy to have someone like her in your life to be there.

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  17. I can relate in numerous amount of ways with you on this article because my grandmother is also one of the biggest part of my life as well. Grandmother's can be very frustrating and stubborn but they do everything out of love and it is great to have someone elderly like your wonderful grandmother in your life.

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  18. Your grandmother is a strong woman to go the distance to make sure you have the best life you have. your lucky to have a grandmother like that even on days where she'll say what she has found out from someone. I can relate because I have a grandmother including a mom thats like that.

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  19. Your grandmother sounds like a really nice and kind hearted person. Your lucky to have someone like that who took care of you.

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  20. Your grandmother is really strong, reading this makes me want to go see my grandmother so badly. I really enjoyed reading this.

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  21. The love you share with your grandmother is amazing. She is a strong and careing woman who has a grandson who reconizes what she has dojne for him. I have personly never meet my both grandmothers. One i will sadly never meet and the other lives in Brazil. I can't wait to meet her and hopefully say the same thing about her.

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  22. Your grandmother must be extremely proud of you. You are a strong writer and i love the way you wrote this. You described her by how she acts and how she looks. Also you explained the reason she is important to you so well.

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